You have the potential to give your woman, or any woman, the most mind-blowing orgasms she has ever had. Using only your tongue!

It is a statistical fact that 83% of women enjoy good oral sex, a good cunnilingus, even better than penetrative sex, so all men must learn to give a good cunnilingus. Keep in mind that what they love is good oral sex, not just any oral sex. Many guys think that any licking and any previous preparation is fine, but that is definitely not true.

These are the three biggest mistakes men make when teasing a woman. Make sure you don’t do them too …

1. Mistake number one: no foreplay

A woman’s body is extremely delicate and, although incredibly sensitive and receptive to stimuli, all women are equally aroused by their mind and gradually, little by little. Unlike men, it tends to be more on / off like a light switch.

So if you want to give her the best cunnilingus possible, take the time to prepare it properly. Imagine that your body and mind gradually turn on through the degrees. Like an oven dial that goes from 0 to 10.

If you just dive in without putting her in the mood, it’s too much for her. And it is not necessarily an arousal for her, if her mind is not in the right place.

Start the night with romance and sensual approach. With good food, candles, incense. Then with something sensual rather than sexual. Like a massage or a warm soapy bath. These first steps are raising it from 0 to 4/5/6.

Then the foreplay. I know oral sex itself is considered foreplay, but it is not. You must spend a lot of time kissing her, running your hands over her, turning her on in all the ways she loves before paying attention to her vagina. This will take her to 7/8/9, and then she is really ready.

2. Mistake two: licking the clitoris too soon

The magic clitoris is the most sensitive part of the vagina by far, and that is why you should not move to stimulate it with your tongue from the beginning; it may be too sensitive. And it will generally be covered by the clitoral protective hood until it is turned on enough and the hood is removed.

But most men do not know this and they remain there, as if it were a simple orgasm button to press. This can be distracting for the woman and you are losing a lot of potential to give pleasure to the rest of the vagina.

Take your time to please the whole vagina first. Really enjoy it, she will love you for it. Work your way up gradually and finally focus your attention on the clitoris. Then play with it and build and build until you have an orgasm.

But whatever you do, don’t …

3. Mistake three: ask her if she has orgasms

Never, never ask a woman if she has already come. It puts everything in a very bad place and will make her aware that that is your goal. Women like to lose themselves in pleasure and not feel any pressure to achieve some kind of goal, such as orgasm.

If you start to overthink it, you may be distracted from enjoying the moment. Try to make the goal simply to pleasure her, for the sake of pleasure. Because you love it.

And if you want to know if it runs or not. You may not be very sure. There are ways, like inserting a finger into her vagina, the entrance of which involuntarily jerks and contracts when a woman has an orgasm.

Just by paying attention to these three common mistakes and staying away from them will make you 100% better and a master of the art of cunnilingus. Your wife will thank you!

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