Normally, there is a special dynamic that operates in male-female relationships. While women tend to be passive and receptive, men are more active and innovative. A typical example in a club is: girls expect to be approached, while boys expect to be approached by girls. A girl can do two things to improve her success: she can look her best, dress in high heels, push-up bras, etc., and she can also signal an invitation for a guy to approach her. A guy is more likely to approach a girl who looks good in her eyes, but he will also go for a less attractive one if she shows signs of interest and he sees a green light.

Therefore, in a typical male-female interaction, the woman will indicate with her body language and behavior that she is ready to proceed, while the man will respond to her cues, calibrate, and move forward accordingly. He will have to follow the steps and initiate, as she expects him to. Once again, she is all about leading. No matter how good a conversationalist you are and no matter how attracted she is to you, you will always have to be the one to initiate. Some aggressive and horny women will do it for you, but that is the exception and not the rule.

There are two types of female cues: conscious and subconscious. A girl will give conscious signals when she wants you to make your move. Subconscious cues are more subtle and will be an automatic response to her feeling good in her company. It is very important to learn these signs. Surely you have laughed as many times as I have with the typical scene in Hollywood movies: the girl is attracted to a boy; the boy is attracted to the girl, but the boy does not recognize the signs of interest that she sends him, which leads to a great charade. Just by learning to recognize the signals that women send, you will improve your success exponentially. In a club or in typical day-to-day situations, there will always be some girls around you showing signs of interest and inviting you to approach them using body language. If you recognize these girls and make your move, chances are you’ll be successful.

You will see that sometimes certain signs can be misleading, and it is necessary to develop your intuition for such situations. For example, a waitress has to smile at everyone to get tips, and she might accidentally trick you into thinking she’s attracted to you. To avoid this, you will need to tune your intuition with experience and learn to “feel” if she is really attracted to you or not. A professional table tennis player does not see the ball. He feels it. His hands move automatically while he is in a trance. A lot of practice will help you to better “feel” the signals that women give, just like the table tennis player does with the ball.

So let’s take a look at the more general conscious and subconscious signs that she is attracted to you:

1. She is relaxed while sitting or standing and talking to you. Her arms are open and not closed; Her legs are either wide apart or crossed with her feet pointing towards you.

2. She feels comfortable in your company. When you lean further into her, stay in the same position and don’t move away from her.

3. Leans closer while talking to you or sits closer when you are sitting next to each other.

4. She smiles a lot, even laughs at your dumbest jokes, or compliments you on something unremarkable.

5. Sometimes he touches your arms or shoulder when he talks to you.

6. Arranges clothes, applies more makeup in the bathroom, or exposes parts of her body, revealing skin and showing erotic body parts.

7. Rubs wrists up and down, and rubs, touches, or pats cheek.

8. Play with her hair, pushing her fingers through it or twirling a few curls in a slow, sensual motion.

9. Looks deep into your eyes while smiling, with dilated pupils. She blinks faster than usual or keeps looking into your eyes longingly, like your dog when you’re about to feed her.

10. When you touch or hug her, she feels comfortable; she might even snuggle closer to you.

11. When you hold out your hand to her, she takes it and continues to hold it as if they were already a couple.

12. She bites her lips and licks them, showing her tongue, or moistens her lips with lipstick. Putting a finger or nail in or on your mouth in a sexual way: These are signs of sexual thoughts and are usually signs of arousal.

13. He rubs his legs and presses them against the table legs or against your legs under the table, another sign of sexual arousal.

14. Plays with her wine glass, jewelry, or other object in a sensual rubbing, stroking motion.

15. The way you sit or stand reflects your body language; she is reflecting you.

Of course, she can’t be doing everything at the same time. But, if you meet more than two or three of them (especially the serious ones), chances are that she is very attracted to you and wants you. A word of warning: just as there are shy guys, there are also shy girls. They may have a harder time showing signs of interest and flirting with you. They might also try to hide these signs. You will recognize them by their youthful confusion.

And now let’s look at some negative body language, showing disinterest and less attraction to you:

1. Break eye contact and look away when you try to meet her eyes.

2. Makes a face, showing that she is just bored. She never smiles.

3. When you ask him a question, he responds after a pause: “What did you say?” and it is obvious that she is thinking about something else or she is mentally somewhere else.

4. There are long, awkward silences in their conversation, and she shows no interest in breaking the silence or bringing up new topics.

5. His legs and arms are crossed; she is sitting at a certain distance, or she turns away from you. She leans back, and when you lean closer to her, she pulls away or just acts like she’s uncomfortable.

6. Does not react to your jokes and does not laugh with you; she may express polite surprise.

And the list goes on. Although persistence is a good trait to have and sometimes by being persistent you can bounce back from the most desperate situations, the negative signs outlined above show that you have done something wrong and it might be time to move on and find someone else. girl. . Never be disappointed; success will come with determination and time.