In most cases, yes, a 4 inch penis is too small, especially if that is the size of your penis when it is erect (hard). A 4 inch penis is too small if you want to have sex in the missionary position (man on top). I have surveyed many women by posting polls on various forums, and also based on personal experience, a 4 inch penis is not enough to get the job done. It may be nice for some women at first, but as time goes on, your woman’s vagina will start to loosen a bit and this may be bad news for you. In the long run, this can usually lead to your woman feeling unhappy and dissatisfied in general, and eventually cheating on you. What hurts the most is the fact that the sight of a bigger penis will actually turn any woman on. Most women, once they come across a large penis, will receive it in disbelief. They will hold it, look at it and utter words that will only awaken the ego of the viewers, “wow … It’s so … big …” – Any boy would love to hear that.
However, this is not the same for men with smaller penises. In most cases, even if you are with a kind and caring woman who understands, no woman can deny that a large penis turns them on. That’s when you start to think and feel sorry for yourself. “What if he finds someone better? What if one day a guy with a bigger penis turns up?” – Any man can come and show his wife what she is missing. Chances are, if you are her first boyfriend, or the first person she has had sex with, she will think that your penis is “big” because she has not seen any other penis to compare. And when a man with something else to offer enters the picture, that’s when we really start to get caring, jealous, and even defensive and controlling. After a while, it starts to really affect our thought patterns and how we perceive things. In general, we start to get paranoid, and this can often lead many men to become even more insecure with themselves and, worse, it can lead to breakup and give up the relationship at hand.
This can also be a problem in many real life situations, especially when you are meeting a new girl, or your girlfriend, or if she decides to invite you over to her house, or who knows, she may even decide to invite herself. Its place. But, either way, this can be very frustrating and possibly the most frustrating situation any man could be in.
Sometimes unexpected things happen. What you thought would be an innocent reunion turns out to be your worst nightmare. Things somehow start to heat up a bit, and the tension between the two of you starts to build, and before you know it, you both start kissing passionately, until she utters those words that make any man jump off the roof. : “I can. Don’t take it anymore, let’s have sex now!”
Wait, wait a minute!
You find yourself very aroused and all you really want to do in that moment is have sex with her, but that’s exactly when the painful realizations start to sink in. That’s when you find yourself coming to your senses and your insecurity really starts to take over. Questions like, “Will you laugh when you see my penis?”, “Will my penis size turn it off and ultimately kill the mood for both of us?”, And “What if you tell other people how small it is? my penis?”. it is !? “It starts to fill your mind and it takes over. Then make the shameful decision to back down and use whatever excuse comes to mind. You can’t.
Thousands of men who are about to get lucky find themselves in this same situation every day! And for most of us who find ourselves in this situation, it is extremely difficult to bear what we missed, and we tend to feel sorry for ourselves and punish ourselves for it. It’s a horrible truth that many of us have to go through, but I just want to tell you that even though things seem hopeless, there is hope, and there is something you can do about it!