Pretense and deceit have overshadowed many acclaimed love relationships to the point that love is now lacking in many of them. Although many guys claim to love multiple women, many of them have suffered countless heartbreaks.
Do not be disappointed; their supposed love may just be lust or infatuation. So take the time to discover genuine love and free yourself from pretense.
1) TRUST:
It is one of the signs of true love. They are the important building blocks of love. A rock-solid relationship is one that is built on trust. Any lady or guy who truly loves you will always trust your words, thoughts, and actions. A lady or a guy who claims to love you but keeps doubting your sincerity is not really in love with you. A courtship without trust cannot lead to a pleasant marriage. Lack of confidence will cause him to hide many of his secrets from you, protecting you from the opposite sex and questioning your calls. The absence of trust is an indicator of a rusty marriage ahead.
2) UNCONDITIONAL LOVE:
Genuine love is the one that emanates from the heart. Sincere love is not conditioned on anything. If your so-called lover’s love is based on your academic achievements, official position, facial appearance, height, gender and wealth, that lady or that boy is not in love with you. If he or she is only happy when he or she gets money or sex from you and fights or withholds from you when you are in financial trouble or won’t give up your body, then rest assured he or she is a liar. Very soon he or she will end the relationship.
3) SINCERITY:
A lady or guy who really loves you will operate an “open door policy.” He or she will be open and honest in their words, actions, and dealings with you.
Sincerity is very vital in real love relationships because it is the door that leads to trust. Someone who tells lies often hides his diary from you and will never let you know that his mailbox password is not reliable. If you dig deeper, you may find out that he or she is in another relationship. If his so-called heartbeat is keeping two issues at once, then he or she is endangering his or her life. Openness and truthfulness are the hallmarks of a loving relationship.
4) GIVE:
Jesus Christ, the originator of love, showed us genuine love. In John 3:16 the Bible says “For God so loved the world that he gave ………………………”. Love is about giving; You can’t love without giving. Any lady or boy who only receives or asks without giving anything in return is not a lover, he is a “thief”. His motive is to empty your pocket or turn you into a dump. Love becomes theft when it only takes without giving. So, a lover who often demands a lot from your pocket or your body, who doesn’t care if you go into debt financially or spiritually to satisfy him, is not a lover but a KILLER of fate and finances.
5) EMOTION:
Is he or she always excited to see you? Do you receive a warm welcome every time she visits? Is he or she singing your praises or just putting up with you? Check it very well. Any man or woman who truly loves you should celebrate you.
6) SELF CONTROL:
A man or woman who cannot “zip up” until the wedding night, who has become a sexual object, does not really love. If all he or she cares about when you’re together is kissing, pecking, caressing, or having sex, it’s a dangerous game that will pit you against God. It can even lead to unwanted pregnancies, miscarriages, or sterility. A lady or man who lacks the fear of God will not respect you in marriage. Close! Be careful, lest you marry a holy prostitute or a sex hunter who might want to use you to satisfy her sexual drive and then leave you for another ‘catch’. Keep in mind that many couples with woeful marriages today rely on the spark of the emotional demands of premarital sex.
7) PROGRESS:
Marriage is not about “helping to eat”, it is about helping to satisfy. It is about two people planning and working together to progress in life. If the person you say you love shows no interest in your future and all he or she is experiencing is today, that means he or she is a “help to eat.” It is not worth marrying any man or woman who is not ready to plan the progress of their future with you. He or she will not be there for you in the future. True love adds value to life.