So your ex boyfriend broke up with you and now he says he just wanted to be friends. At this point, you may be wondering why he said he just wanted to be friends. Was he serious about this statement? Did he really tell you this? If that’s the case, it’s really a negative sign and you have to do something about it, otherwise you risk losing it forever. Read on to find out exactly how to approach this situation.
When your ex-boyfriend said that he just wanted to be friends, you probably knew or at least suspected what he meant by that. If you find it hard to understand what that means, you still have strong feelings for him and you don’t want to lose him. In a situation like this, you first have to agree with what he said to get him back.
At the moment, his mind is already made up, nothing can change his mind, and not even pleading and crying can change his mind. Trying to argue with him will definitely do more harm than good. However, the worst thing to do in a situation like this is to promise him sex to get him back.
We all know that men can be cruel when it comes to sex. The fact is that it may take a while for your ex boyfriend to start dating a rebound relationship. Not all men are comfortable paying for sexual services, and those men would prefer to have a sexual relationship with an ex. The reasons some men resort to having a sexual relationship with their ex are: trust, familiarity, pleasure, an established bond. You must be alert when your ex boyfriend says that he wants to be friends. His reason for being your friend might be to have a sexual relationship with you. In a situation like this, your ex wants a friend with benefits.
He no longer wants to be in a relationship with you. If he suggests being friends, you should say NO. It’s obvious that he doesn’t want to be just a friend, but a friend with benefits. If you accept this, you will never get it back. The truth is, it is not possible to get your ex boyfriend back when he just wants to be friends.
Getting him back requires much more than just being friends. It requires a lot of work on your part, as well as a game plan. Getting your boyfriend back is absolutely possible; however, you can’t do this if you’re stuck in the “friend zone.” Rather, you should get rid of that friendship and make an effort to win him back as a lover.